AMA Responses
Sometimes I post the NGL link and get a ton of anonymous questions, a few hundred at once. A lot of them are funny but some require more in-depth responses. It also clouds the timeline if I post too many responses at once. I’m going to respond to a few questions I received last week, perhaps I do this on a more regular basis.
There’s a lot to say on this topic. Men making friends with men IRL is somewhat age-dependent. In high school and college you’re able to make friends easier because you have less on your plate. The more responsibilities you take on, the less time you have, and the more people tend to cement themselves into the friend group they made when they were younger.
I don’t like to do how to’s on social dynamics, but I can say what qualities make me want to become friends with men, or makes me think I’d get along with them. I’m someone who would rather have 3 friends that I trust and would die for than 20 drinking buddies. Not everyone is like that. Trust comes above all, a man who is not trustworthy is a cockroach.
Obviously there is more to it than that. I like to have fun and joke around, if a guy doesn’t have a good sense of humor or takes himself too seriously he might as well not exist in my eyes. I respect men who are honest with themselves, I have little patience for men who think so highly of themselves that they think they’re in a position to moralize or scold others. There’s other qualities, but those are the first few that come to mind.
Eh. You have the choice between something that evolved over millions of years into a shape perfectly designed for a dick, that excretes warm cum onto it when excited, to make a man feel such immeasurable heights of pleasure that he impregnates her and creates human life itself and perpetuates the existence of a species…and then right next to that is…a dry hole. I heard someone recently say “it’s like a really tight door that leads into a big room.” Also, grabbing a bottle of lube before getting into the act has the same effect as grabbing a condom, the pause disrupts the vibe.
It can be hot occasionally because the act itself is dirty but it’s not something I’m into.
Also, women poop back there. 🐝 careful!
He sounds like a loser. I’d stop hanging out with him. People can only help themselves and he may not necessarily want to change. Some people were destined to be losers and feel more comfortable in their natural place in the hierarchy. They just stay there and want to pull you into it so they have company. Seems like a bummer and a burden.
I don’t like the binary view of the dating apps. It isn’t necessarily good to be “looking for a girlfriend” either. I’ve got into this in depth here — overall I think it’s better to be open-minded and aim to meet someone you have chemistry with and see where things go.
Important to remember that most women will settle down with a man if they respect him enough, regardless of what they claim they’re looking for. Their primal need to feel protected, provided for and impregnated isn’t going anywhere anytime soon.
Some bad qualities that are sometimes good qualities — I can be a huge dick if I feel backed into a corner. I can be extremely manipulative to get what I want. I can be intense and relentless. Sometimes I just want to be alone. A few “bad” qualities off the top of my head.
Yes, I think it’s hot. It doesn’t mean I necessarily prefer it, but I do like it.
That’s a good question. In an ideal world everyone would tell each other exactly why they’re not into each other and no one walks away permanently damaged. The opposite is never knowing for sure why something didn’t work out and no one knows where they fall short. We don’t live in an ideal world and men’s egos are more brittle than most of us are willing to admit. Women should lightly say what it was that wasn’t working for her without completely shattering his ego. It’s important for men to know these things, though women should wield the power they hold over men’s egos carefully.
It’s hard for me to give personal advice without knowing someone’s personality and their circumstances, but putting yourself in situations that force you to socialize more is good. If there’s a city or country you’ve always wanted to go to, you should spend some time there, go to different places and bars and just strike up conversations with people. It’s going to feel awkward at first and there’s going to be uncomfortable moments but eventually you learn those weird feelings don’t kill you and you become more resilient and try again. This applies to approaching women as well.
Medcast will be back 😎
Blacks are significantly more violent than any other race and tend to behave like animals in public. I don’t like any group that behaves like that. If German Americans started behaving that way, I would feel exactly the same toward them.
Yes, molly is an excellent drug and probably my favorite. It has both a psychoactive and stimulative effect, it makes everything physically feel and sound amazing. Truly euphoric. The comedown is hard so it shouldn’t be done frequently. Save it for special occasions, ideally with someone you have amazing chemistry with. I’ve only done it once and I will never forget it, the experience can only be defined as Magic.